#DearNewWife When you get married you go straight into the honeymoon period of marriage. Your spouse is perfect, you both get along well, and you probably agree on everything. But sooner than later that period will wear off. You and your spouse may begin to disagree or argue and you’ll probably get on each other’s last nerve. lol As soon you have that first major disagreement you’ll be tempted to pick up the phone and tell your family or your friends every detail. Don’t do it sis. Just put down the phone and breathe. After you both have cooled off and worked things out, you’ll probably forget that you even had a disagreement. Your friends and family will still remember though and that could create a toxic situation moving forward.
That doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t have anyone to talk to. It’s just easier to talk to someone who isn’t a relative or who you know will not pick sides when it comes to your marriage. It’s also best to speak to someone who is married, someone who believes in marriage, or someone who shares your values. This person or persons will most likely give you sound, unbiased advice. Always talk to your spouse and try working things out first. Unless it’s a very serious matter that can’t be resolved, avoid making that phone call to vent about your spouse. 💕 #MillennialWifehood